Spread the Fragrance of God's Love"
Spread the Fragrance of God's Love"
On Not Being A Prisoner of Our Own Thoughts
Do today what is planned for tomorrow.
Do now what is planned for today. (Kabir)
What are the benefits of discovering our soul? Some people want to
find bliss and happiness. Others want the knowledge of what lies
beyond this world. For some, conquering fear of death is the
motivating factor. For others, it is empowerment that drives them.
Let us not lose precious time. How many of us know someone who was
snatched from life unexpectedly? It may have been a child or a teen who
passed away; it may have been a loved one. It could have been someone
who was in the best of health. When we least expect it, someone we love
can die. We do not know when our turn will come. Even if it is not
death that takes us, sometimes a sickness can afflict us. Some
illnesses are so debilitating we can no longer perform our normal
functions in life. It is crucial that we take advantage of the time we
have when we are fit, healthy, and functioning. Who knows what will
happen?
An anecdote from the life of Kabir Sahib illustrates this point.
While visiting Benares, Kabir Sahib always passed by the same man
daily, who was always sitting in his garden. One day, Kabir Sahib
said to him, "Good Sir, instead of merely sitting in your garden
doing nothing, why not sit in meditation and make spiritual
progress?"
The man replied, "I have a family. My children are young, and I
cannot find enough time for spiritual practices now. But I will
practice spirituality when the children grow up."
Years later, after the children had grown up, Kabir Sahib met the
same man again. "Now that your children are older, do you find time for
meditation?"
This time the man responded, "I am in the process of getting my
children married off so they can live independently. As soon as they
are all married, I will begin my spiritual practices."
A few years passed, and Kabir Sahib met the man again. He again
inquired about the man's spiritual life. "Now that your children are
married, do you have time for meditation?"
"My children have grandchildren, and I am watching them grow up,
receive an education, and then marry."
Some years passed, and Kabir Sahib returned to find that the man had
passed away. Kabir Sahib shook his head and said, "The poor man has
spent his whole life thinking he would find time for meditation, and
passed away without devoting any time to discover his soul. His mind
led him into such a deep attachment to this world that he did not take
any time for his own meditations."
We do not want to end up like the man who was always too busy to
search for God until it was too late. If we were to take a circle and
divide it into three slices, label each slice: "physical
goals," "intellectual goals," and "spiritual goals," what would we
have in each of these arenas? All three are important. Many people
think that when they pursue spiritual goals, they have to give up
everything else. That is what Sant Darshan Singh Ji called "negative
mysticism." Spirituality can be a path of what he termed "positive
mysticism." This means that while pursuing our spiritual goals, we
still take care of the other two aspects of our life, our physical
existence and our intellectual life. We first need to prioritize. We
can live a balanced life and attend to our physical, mental, and
spiritual pursuits.- Sant Rajinder Singh